A couple embracing in their kitchen doorway, lit by string lights.

Daily check-ins for couples

How close do you feel to your partner today?

That is the first of four questions Yoke asks each day. A minute to answer on your own, then you both see the same picture.

How it works

About a minute, once a day

Four questions at whatever time suits you: how close you feel, your mood, your energy, and what shaped the day. Then your two answers, side by side.

The daily check-in screen with mood options, an energy scale, and tags for what affected your day.

Then, how are you feeling?

Mood, energy and what shaped the day, answered on your own. Add a note if there is something you want your partner to know.

Both partners' answers shown side by side, with what affected each day and a shared note.

Now see each other's

Nothing is revealed until you have both checked in, so neither of you gets nudged into matching the other.

A summary of days tracked and check-in streaks, above a chart of what has been shaping your days.

Watch the patterns show up

Check-ins stack up over weeks. A rough patch becomes something you can point at, instead of something you argue about.

There are plenty of apps to help you find a partner. Yoke was built to help you keep them.

Inside the app

For when talking is the hard part

A toolkit you can open together: conversation prompts, short exercises, and a walkthrough of the four patterns that derail arguments and what to do instead of each one.

Print the workbooks if you would rather do it away from a screen.

  • Weekly check-in

    Sit down together at the end of the week, or answer separately and compare. Your daily check-ins decide what comes up.

  • Questions to connect

    Thought-provoking questions designed to help you discover something new about each other.

  • Shared values

    Work out what matters most to you both and set a shared direction.

  • Conflict resolution

    Spot the four patterns that derail arguments, and learn the antidote to each one.

  • Attachment styles

    Understand your own style and how it shapes the relationship.

  • Your history

    A calendar and a timeline of every check-in, with weekly recaps you can look back on.

Check in today

Yoke is free to download on iPhone and Android. Invite your partner whenever you are ready.